September , 2025
Constitutional Court Ruling on Men Taking Wives’ Surnames: Legal Victory or Cultural Dissonance?
By Leretha Legal (Pty) Ltd

The Constitutional Court’s judgment in Jordaan and Others v Minister of Home Affairs and Another (CCT 296/24) [2025] ZACC 19 is more than a line in the law reports; it is a moment of reckoning for South Africa’s evolving legal order. In striking down provisions of the Births and Deaths Registration Act that barred men from taking their wives’ surnames, the Court has taken a decisive step towards gender equality. On its face, the ruling dismantles one of the quieter remnants of patriarchal control over naming and identity. It is, by any measure, a victory for equality before the law.

But as with many constitutional triumphs, the ruling invites harder questions. Does the legal right to adopt a wife’s surname translate into social acceptance? Or does it risk unsettling the cultural, religious, and customary frameworks that continue to define the lives of millions of South Africans?

Why the Applicants Went to Court
This case was not born of idle curiosity but of deeply felt convictions. The applicants placed before the Court a set of reasons that were as compelling as they were varied.
• Preserving a Family Legacy
Ms Jordaan, the last surviving member of her immediate family, regarded her surname as the final living link to her late parents. She wished to ensure that her children could inherit and carry forward that name. Mr van der Merwe supported her in this wish and sought to take the Jordaan surname himself, as an act of respect for his wife’s family, an embrace of their lineage, and a practical step to unify the family under a single name
• Challenging Gender Discrimination
They argued that this distinction unfairly discriminated on the grounds of sex and gender, violating sections 9 (equality) and 10 (dignity) of the Constitution. 
• Practical and Administrative Clarity
The applicants also raised practical concerns. A shared surname would make it easier to manage travel documentation, school enrolments, and medical records for their children. They argued that forcing men through a slower, more complicated route created needless administrative burdens for families wishing to share a single surname.
The Surname as Cultural Capital

In African societies, a surname is not a mere bureaucratic label. It is a living archive, a link to lineage, clan, totem, and ancestral duty. Among the AmaZulu, AmaXhosa, BaSotho (North and South), and countless others, patrilineal naming is not just tradition; it is the organising principle of inheritance, belonging, and ritual practice.

When a man exchanges his birth surname for that of his wife, the act raises more than administrative questions. Does he, symbolically and legally, step out of his lineage? Do his totems, his burial rights, and his obligations transfer with him, or are they left behind? The law answers with a neat “yes, he may change his name.” Customary law, however, whispers back: “But at what cost?”

Customary Law and the Lineage Dilemma
The Recognition of Customary Marriages Act 120 of 1998 and the jurisprudence surrounding it affirm the centrality of the paternal line in transmitting identity. Dislodging this practice is no small affair; it threatens to ripple through the systems of inheritance, succession, and ritual responsibility that give communities their cohesion. Statutory law may grant a right, but customary law gives that right meaning. This is where the tension lies: between individual choice and collective identity. As Africans, diverse though we may be, there is remarkable unity in our core values. Chief among them is the idea that marriage is not merely a contract between two individuals but a union of families. It is regarded as an honour when a woman takes her husband’s surname, symbolising her formal entry into his lineage. The act is steeped in ritual, custom, and meaning: the lobola negotiations, the consultations with the husband’s family, the blessing of the elders. What does not happen, in virtually all cultures, is the woman proposing marriage, seeking out the man’s family head (male or female) to ask for his hand, or petitioning for permission to draw him into her lineage. This asymmetry is not necessarily seen as oppressive but as a reflection of a deeply held cultural order. The cultural order refers to the shared worldview that underpins social organisation, morality, and identity in African societies. It is not merely a set of customs but a way of understanding human existence:
  • Communalism over individualism: The self is understood through the community. Decisions, especially life-altering ones like marriage, are not just private but collective events.
  • Kinship as the core unit: Marriage is not about two people falling in love and living independently; it is about forging alliances between families, clans, or lineages, thereby strengthening the social fabric.
  • Ritual as meaning-making: The ceremonies (lobola, bride price, blessings, naming) are not empty traditions but acts that transform a private relationship into a public covenant, witnessed and sanctified by the community.
In this sense, the cultural order is about maintaining harmony between individuals, families, and society at large.
Religion Enters the Fray

Religious traditions further complicate the terrain. In Islam, patrilineal continuity underpins inheritance rights and familial identity. Hindu naming practices embed caste and lineage within the surname. African Christian communities, despite their faith heritage, often retain patriarchal naming practices as part of the moral order.

Much of our public discourse on marriage and family tends to orbit around statutory law, customary law, and common law. These are essential frameworks as they safeguard justice, order, and precedent; however, they often leave unexamined a crucial dimension: the “moral order” and the way it underpins our understanding of what a “good society” looks like.

“Moral order” is the unseen scaffolding that holds up cultural order. It is less about punishment and enforcement, and more about guiding what is considered right, fitting, and harmonious. Cultural order, the way a community arranges its social roles, obligations, and rituals, often flows from this moral wellspring. The Court’s judgment does not erase these frameworks, but it does create fertile ground for conflict, especially in rural settings where traditional and religious authorities continue to govern social life. What is lawful in the Department of Home Affairs may yet be unlawful in the council of elders. And in urban culture, too, the tension persists – many still adhere to these symbolic norms.

Equality on Paper, Taboo in Practice

Legal equality does not guarantee social legitimacy. A man who adopts his wife’s surname may find himself celebrated in Sandton, but scorned in Sekhukhune. Nearly half of South Africans still live in contexts where customary law frames the rhythms of life, marriage, birth, death, and inheritance and where a man who abandons his clan name risks being seen as cutting the cord that binds him to his family.

In urban spaces, too, the question is nuanced. Many women take pride in their husband’s surname as a marker of union and status; a tradition that, ironically, distinguishes them from others. For some, the wife’s surname is a banner of belonging; for others, it is a burden. What happens when men join that dance?

The Bigger Picture

Some may view the decision as an overdue dismantling of patriarchal hierarchies. Others may see it as an alien imposition on African ways of being. The Constitutional Court has given us more than a judgment; it has handed down an interesting debate. For gender equality in naming to be more than symbolic, it must be accompanied by meaningful engagement with traditional leaders, religious authorities, and the communities who live by these systems. Otherwise, the ruling risks being a paper victory – celebrated in law journals, ignored in village courts.

An Invitation to Debate, Not Just to Judge

This is where we might need to pause before we celebrate or condemn a new court ruling. Legal reform should not flatten cultural and moral nuance in the name of modernity. Instead, we must ask:

  • What does this ruling mean for the moral vision that undergirds our society?
  • Does it align with, refine, or dismantle that vision, and should it?
  • How do we create space for both individual autonomy and cultural coherence?

The goal is not to resist change at all costs, but to ensure that when we change, we do so consciously, honouring the wisdom of our traditions while making room for new expressions of justice and equality.

The Constitutional Court case is both a triumph and a test. It asks whether South Africa can reconcile its constitutional promise of equality with the ancestral memory that continues to anchor its people across 13 official languages. Whether this ruling ushers in a new era of gender justice or sparks a cultural earthquake will depend less on what the Court has said and more on how society chooses to respond.

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